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LYLAB (Luv Ya Like A Book)
Charity: From kindergarten through sixth grade, I attended an alternative K-12 school run by the local college. Funding for the school was cut, and subsequently it closed. That meant: Public school, which my friends and I were convinced was one step away from prison.
I started junior high alone. I wasn’t really close to the few others from my old school who also ended up there. Because I went to the alternative school, the other kids informed me, on the first day in homeroom, that I was retarded.
Is it any surprise I lived for Fridays? When the first quarter grades came out, those homeroom kids demanded to see my grades. I had no problem with that, not with As and Bs on my report card.
“You must be a brain,” one kid said, dismissing me.
And I was still just as alone.
Eventually, I made friends, and by the end of eighth grade, had a wonderful group I hung out with. But what got me through the really tough days was a “friend” I’ve never met: Ellen Conford.
Ellen Conford has written a ton of books. (No, really, I think if you put all of them on a scale, they would weigh a ton.) But my favorites were: Dear Lovey Hart, I Am Desperate, We Interrupt This Semester For an Important Bulletin (the sequel to Lovey Hart), Seven Days to a Brand-New Me, and Alfred G. Graebner Memorial High School Handbook of Rules and Regulations.
During junior high, I read those four books over and over again. Part of me considered the girls in those books my friends, and some days, my only friends. As homage to Ellen Conford, when I revised The Geek Girl’s Guide to Cheerleading, I added in an excerpt from the varsity cheerleading guide at the start of each chapter--in much the same way that Alfred G. Graebner Memorial High School Handbook of Rules and Regulations has excerpts from the handbook.
Darcy: My history wasn’t as traumatic as Charity’s but there were times in my life when books were my best friends too. My family moved a lot (and no, my parents weren’t gypsies). We rarely went far away, usually just to a bigger house, a better neighborhood, a nicer nearby town. But, to a kid without wheels, even a few blocks (and an invisible school district boundary line) might as well be the other side of the world.
Lucky for me, I was pretty good at making new friends…but these things had to be done delicately. It didn’t take me too many failures to figure out I couldn’t just barge my way into a group. Easing closer and closer, until it seemed like I had always been one of them was a better method. But biding my time meant spending a LOT of that time all alone. I didn’t mind too much though – I had books to keep me company.
During my years of being The New Girl, most of the books I loved best were stories about kids just like me – characters struggling to find their place in the world. Their triumphs and happy endings gave me hope. You can’t ask for a better friend than that, can you?
Both: So, in today’s young adult novels. Do you have any book friends? Charity would definitely like to hang out with all of Maureen Johnson’s heroines. Darcy would love a road trip with the gang from John Green’s Paper Towns – but she is not peeing in a bottle – that’s grody. The senior version from Deb Caletti’s Honey, Baby, Sweetheart is probably more her speed. Plus, those old folks were hilarious!
What characters would you like to hang with?
You mean YA books from when I was growing up?
ReplyDeleteThe only one I had access to was Nancy Drew.
Didn't have any other option and I always thought she was smarter and cooler than me, so yeah, I'd like to hang with her.
Judy Blume was never an option for me. By the time I'd heard of this author, I was past the age where it would have done me any assist.
Today, I'd be afraid to hang out with some of my favorite characters..they're all into the paranormal set and truth be told, I'd pee my pants if I hung around with them when some of what usually happens around them, happened.
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Lol, Michelle, I know what you mean about hanging out with some of today's characters. What about Harry and the gang at Hogwarts?
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Believe it or not, I've not read any. I've seen the movies, and I know that is NO where near as good as the books. Movies never are.
ReplyDeleteI HAVE read the Twilight series...books are better than movies. LOL
I would LOVE to hang around Jacob though. He's got his head together...well, finally after the last book anyway. :-)
I've not read any other YA lately. It was my librarian that got me hooked on Twilight. She..um.. knows my reading habit. I sort of checked about 900 items a year ago. I guess that makes an impact.
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I might try the Harry books, now that they are all out. No waiting in line or years for the next one. :-)
I would love to hang out with the Scooby gang, minus the demons and vamps of course!!
ReplyDeleteAwww poor Charity! But now you're better off than most of those high school peers, after all, they're not the ones with loyal blog followers ;P
ReplyDeleteI dunno why, I just got over Harry Potter pretty soon. I'd love to hang out with Macy from the Truth About Forever, Nancy Drew, Owen from Just Listen, Robert Langdon and Bethany from the Geek girl's guide.
-prodhi
Oh! Owen! Definitely!
ReplyDeleteWhen I was younger I always wanted to hang with Hermione from HP or any of the characters from Katherine Roberts books.
ReplyDeleteToday, many of my favoritte characters I think I'd be afraid to hang with :P But I would absolutely love to hang with Gemma Doyle from the Gemma Doyle Trilogy.
It was very interesting for me to read that article. Thank author for it. I like such themes and everything connected to this matter. I definitely want to read a bit more soon.
ReplyDeleteDon't stop posting such articles. I love to read articles like that. Just add some pics :)
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